The Law of Consecration

In the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we often speak of the Law of Consecration.  This is a principle the Lord has given to His covenant people.  Those who live by this principle, dedicate themselves to the building up of the Kingdom of God, and ensuring there is “no poor among them.”  Over the years, this principle has taken on various forms depending on the current conditions and circumstances in the church (and the world). For an authorized and concise description, please refer to the following three paragraphs contained on the Church’s Website, and view the Q&A link “What is the Law of Consecration” at the bottom of this page

“The law of consecration is a principle the Lord gives to His covenant people. To live this principle, men and women dedicate themselves completely to building up God’s kingdom and ensuring that there are “no poor among them” (Moses 7:18). They give their time, talents, and material resources to serve the Lord, His Church, and His children.

“In the early days of the restored Church, the Lord instructed Joseph Smith on a particular way the Saints were to live this law (see Doctrine and Covenants 42:30–42). The Saints were to “consecrate” (sacrifice or donate) their property to the Church by giving it to the bishop. He would then give them back what they needed (their “stewardship”). The rest was used to help the poor.

“Today, we live this law in different ways. For instance, we serve others, accept callings and assignments in the Church and do our best at them, and pay a full tithe and a generous fast offering. When we do what the prophets and the Holy Ghost direct us to do to build up God’s kingdom and help the needy, we are living the law of consecration.”

(Click Here to Read More concerning “the Law of Consecration,” and then watch this video Q&A discussion: What is the Law of Consecration.)

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Quotes from Great World Thinkers

“When I quote others, I do so in order to express my own ideas more clearly.”
Michel de Montaigne

“If you should not be forgotten, as soon as you are dead and rotten,
either write things worthy reading, or do things worth the writing.”
Benjamin Franklin


We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.
Preamble to THE CONSTITUTION of the United States.  (First Paragraph!)

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”
The Declaration of Independence

“Of all the dispositions and habits which lead to political prosperity, religion and morality are indispensable. . . . And let us with caution indulge the supposition that morality can be maintained without religion.  Whatever may be conceded to the influence of refined education on minds of peculiar structure, reason and experience both forbid us to expect that national morality can prevail in exclusion of religious principle.”
President George Washington (In his farewell address)

“We have no government armed with power capable of contending with human passions unbridled by morality and religion.  Avarice, ambition, revenge, or gallantry, would break the strongest cords of our Constitution as a whale goes through a net.  Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people.  It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.”
John Adams (to the officers of the Massachusetts militia in 1798)

“Whoever really has considered the lilies of the field or the birds of the air and pondered the improbability of their existence in this warm world within the cold and empty stellar distances will hardly balk at the turning of water into wine—which was, after all, a very small miracle. We forget the greater and still continuing miracle by which water (with soil and sunlight) is turned into grapes.
Wendell Berry, “Christianity and the Survival of Creation”

Gentle in what you do.
Firm in how you do it.
Buck Brannaman (Horse Trainer)

The best laid schemes o’ mice an’ men. Gang aft a-gley” (or “goes wrong”).  Or to translate, the best laid plans of mice and men can still go wrong.  No matter how well you plan, there is no guarantee of success.
Robert Burns (Scotland)

Note: This is a comment from a Chinese Marxist economist after studying Democracy and Capitalism in Boston:
“I had no idea how critical religion is to the functioning of democracy and capitalism.” . . . He continued, “In your past, most Americans attended a church or synagogue every week.  These are institutions that people respected.  When you were there, from your youngest years, you were taught that you should voluntarily obey the law; that you should respect other people’s property, and not steal it.  You were taught never to lie.  Americans followed these rules because they had come to believe that even if the police didn’t catch them when they broke a law, God would catch them.  Democracy works because most people most of the time voluntarily obey your laws.  You can say the same for capitalism, “my friend continued“It works because Americans have been taught in their churches that they should keep their promises and not tell lies. An advanced economy cannot function if people cannot expect that when they sign contracts, the other people will voluntarily uphold their obligations. Capitalism works because most people voluntarily keep their promises.”
A Chinese Marxist Economist
(spoken to Clayton Christensen, Professor at the Harvard Business School)

The great privilege of the Americans does not simply consist in their being more enlightened than other nations, but in their being able to repair the faults they may commit.”
Alexis De Tocqueville

“I’m not the King.  Christ is the King.  I’m just a singer.”
Elvis Presley

“Don’t complain about things. Fix them!
S. Alexander Edgar

Life is a stage, and we don’t always know what will come out from behind the curtain and into our view. Much of what we see is wonderful. But occasionally, we are exposed to the evil or ugly side of life. We can’t always control what we will see. Images flash before our eyes and leave lasting impressions. However, we do have the power to avoid or minimize our exposure to their influence. Knowing when to turn away is wisdom! If you do not turn away, there is often regret.
S. Alexander Edgar

“Our lives are filled with ups and downs.  Some good and some not so good …some difficult, some rewarding, and some amazing.  However, regardless of what we’re going through in our own lives, our animal companions still need to be fed.
S. Alexander Edgar

“Those of us who may be struggling in lonely darkness and/or despair (whether by our own ignorance or our disobedience) can also feel the ‘immediate’ love and influence of the gospel in our lives when we turn from inappropriate behavior and embrace Jesus Christ (Book of Mormon, Alma 34:31). He will ‘immediately’ bless our lives with His love and the warmth of the gospel. We may not be made completely whole ‘immediately,’ but we will feel his love and have hope ‘immediately’ as the ‘great plan of redemption’ is ‘brought about’ in us. Pure and lasting joy will come as we learn more of Him, continue to follow Him, and embrace His Great Plan of Happiness.
S. Alexander. Edgar

“With the loss of a loving companion, we will often ask: ‘Why? Why must my children be without a loving mother or father?’ The truth is, we usually do not know why. But two things are sure; the Lord knows those of us who are left behind, and He trusts us enough to carry on and care for the needs and growth of our little ones. If we are true and diligent, we will enjoy many indescribable tender mercies.
S. Alexander Edgar

Hope springs eternal
Alexander Pope

The Truth beckons to us all.
Anonymous

“One of the illusions of life is that the present hour is not the critical, decisive hour. Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year. He only is rich who owns the day, and no one owns the day who allows it to be invaded with worry, fret, and anxiety. Finish every day and be done with it. You have done what you could.  Some blunders and absurdities no doubt have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This day is all that is good and fair. It is too dear, with its hopes and invitations, to waste a moment on yesterdays.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms – to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.  We all suffer injustices to one degree or another.  Though some of these have greater costs, our hurt and helplessness remain the same. Comparing our circumstances to others is dangerous.   Because regardless of the situations, we all have similar feelings. Our choice in our response to those circumstances is what matters … how we think about them and how we act on them.  In concentration camps … we watched and witnessed some of our comrades behave like swine while others behaved like saints. Man has both potentialities within himself… After all, man is the being who has invented the gas chambers of Auschwitz; however, he is also that being who has entered those gas chambers upright, with the Lord’s prayer or the Shema Israel on his lips.  When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.
Dr. Viktor Frankl, Man’s Search For Meaning,

“You can fool all people some of the time and some of the people all the time.  But you can never fool all people all the time.”
President Abraham Lincoln

“Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and, if true, of infinite importance. The one thing it cannot be is moderately important.
C.S. Lewis

In the words of C. S. Lewis, the animation and renovation of human character “…is precisely what Christianity is about.  This world is a great sculptor’s shop.  We are the statues and there is a rumour going round the shop that some of us are some day going to come to life.”
C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

“Some of us who seem quite nice people may, in fact, have made so little use of a good heredity and good upbringing that we are really worse than those whom we regard as fiends.  That is why Christians are told not to judge.  We see only the results which a man’s choices make out of his raw material. But God does not judge him on the raw material at all, but on what he has done with it.
“Most of the man’s psychological makeup is probably due to his body: when his body dies all that will fall off him, and the real central man, the thing that chose, that made the best or worst out of this material, will stand naked.
“All sorts of nice things which we thought our own, but which were really due to a good digestion, will fall off some of us: all sorts of nasty things which were due to complexes or bad health will fall off others.  We shall then, for the first time, see every one as he really was.  There will be surprises.
C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

“People often think of Christian morality as a kind of bargain in which God says, ‘If you keep a lot of rules I’ll reward you, and if you don’t I’ll do the other thing.’  I do not think that is the best way of looking at it.  I would much rather say that every time you make a choice you are turning the central part of you, the part of you that chooses, into something a little different from what it was before.  And taking your life as a whole, with all your innumerable choices, all your life long you are slowly turning this central thing either into a heavenly creature or into a hellish creature: either into a creature that is in harmony with God, and with other creatures, and with itself, or else into one that is in a state of war and hatred with God, and with its fellow-creatures, and with itself.
C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

Don’t use words too big for the subject. Don’t say infinitely when you mean very; otherwise you’ll have no word left when you want to talk about something really infinite.”
C.S. Lewis

What you lose in the fire, you will find amongst the ashes.”  That is, what you think was destroyed in a fire you will find in the ashes of rebirth (if looked at correctly, you will find it transformed into something else.)
French Proverb

the earth is a medium-sized planet orbiting around an average star in the outer suburbs of an ordinary spiral galaxy, which is itself only one of about a million million galaxies in the observable universe.”
Stephen Hawking, A Brief History of Time

Happiness is a butterfly, which when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you.”
Nathaniel Hawthorne

“It is well to remember that the entire universe, with one trifling exception, is composed of others.
John Andrew Holmes.

We hold these truths to be sacred & undeniable; that all men are created equal & independent, that from that equal creation they derive rights inherent & inalienable, among which are the preservation of life, & liberty, & the pursuit of happiness.
Thomas Jefferson, (in an early draft of The Declaration of Independence)

“…for the support of this Declaration, with a firm reliance on the Protection of Divine Providence, we mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes and our sacred Honor.” (Closing lines of The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen United States Of America.)
Thomas Jefferson, (approved official document of united will and determination, July 4, 1776).

“I find that all my thoughts circle around God like the planets around the sun, and are as irresistibly attracted by Him. I would feel it to be the grossest sin if I were to oppose any resistance to this force.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“[T]here are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year’s course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word “happy” would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“If Jesus rose from the dead, then you have to accept all that he said; if he didn’t rise from the dead, then why worry about any of what he said?  The issue on which everything hangs is not whether or not you like his teachings but whether or not he rose from the dead.
Timothy Keller

“With hurricanes, tornadoes, fires out of control, mudslides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?
Jay Leno

In a sort of ghastly simplicity we remove the organ and demand the function.  We make men without chests and expect of them virtue and enterprise.  We laugh at honour and are shocked to find traitors in our midst.  We castrate and bid the geldings be fruitful.”
C.S. Lewis, The Abolition of Man.
(What was Lewis’ point?  He was referring to Relativism: The notion or idea that there are no absolute truths!  Lewis believed “relativism would lead to the decay of morality and a lack of virtue within society.  Without a belief in Universal Moral Laws, we would fail to educate the heart and are left with intelligent men who behave like animals.” Lewis put it: “Men without Chests.”)

“The framers of our Bill of Rights thought that religious freedom deserved double-barreled protection.  Americans would have the right of ‘free exercise’ of their chosen faith, and government was forbidden to foster or control religion by means of an ‘establishment of religion.’  Today, an increasing number of scholars and activists say that ‘…religion is not so special after all.  Churches are just another charity, faith is just another ideology and worship is just another weekend activity.’  All Americans—believers and nonbelievers alike—should resist this argument. . . . The religion clauses of the Constitution were the culmination of centuries of theological and political debate over the proper relationship between spiritual and temporal authority. . . .”
Michael McConnell, director of the Stanford Constitutional Law Center

“If ever there’s a tomorrow when we’re not together, there’s something you must remember you’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.  But the most important thing is, even if we are apart, I will always be with you, I will always be with you!
Alan Alexander Milne, “Christopher Robin to Winnie the Pooh”

“In every walk with nature one receives far more than he seeks.”
John Muir

I think colleges are basically for fun and to prove you can do your chores, but they’re not for learning.  …I don’t consider going to college as evidence of exceptional ability.  …If you’re trying to do something exceptional, you must have evidence of exceptional ability.  In fact, ideally you dropped out and did something.  (Bill) Gates is a pretty smart guy who dropped out.  (Steve) Jobs is pretty smart, he dropped out. …Larry Ellison, smart guy, he dropped out …like obviously not needed.  …did Shakespeare even go to college, probably not.”
Elon Musk (The Wealthiest Man in the World)

“My children didn’t choose to be born, I chose to have children.
They owe me nothing, I owe them everything.”
Elon Musk

“Clearly, the family is the seedbed of economic skills, money habits, attitudes toward work, and the arts of financial independence.  The family is a stronger agency of educational success than the school.  The family is a stronger teacher of the religious imagination than the church.  Political and social planning in a wise social order begin with the axiom: What strengthens the family strengthens society.  Highly paid, mobile, and restless professionals may disdain the family (having been nurtured by its strengths), but those whom other agencies desert have only one institution in which to find essential nourishment.
The role of a father, a mother, and of children with respect to them, is the absolutely critical center of social force.  … One unforgettable law has been learned painfully through all the oppressions, disasters, and injustices of the last thousand years: If things go well with the family, life is worth living; when the family falters, life falls apart.
Michael Novak

You may come to ask yourself, “what should I do today?” in a manner that means how could I use my time to make things better instead of worse?
Dr. Jordan B. Peterson

“We all know this. It is better to live courageously than cowardly.  Everyone knows that.”
Dr. Jordan B. Peterson

There is no limit to the amount of good you can do if you don’t care who gets the credit.
President Ronald Reagan

“While America’s military strength is important … I’ve always maintained that the struggle now going on for the world will never be decided by bombs or rockets, by armies or military might. The real crisis we face today is a spiritual one; at root, it is a test of moral will and faith. Our enemies must be made to understand: We will never compromise our principles and standards. We will never give away our freedom. We will never abandon our belief in God.
President Ronald Reagan

“In the first place, we should insist that if the immigrant who comes here in good faith becomes an American and assimilates himself to us, he shall be treated on an exact equality with everyone else, for it is an outrage to discriminate against any such man because of creed, or birthplace, or origin. But this is predicated upon the person’s becoming in every facet an American and nothing but an American…There can be no divided allegiance here. Any man who says he is an American, but something else also, isn’t an American at all. We have room for but one flag, the American flag… We have room for but one language here, and that is the English language… and we have room for but one sole loyalty and that is a loyalty to the American people.
President Theodore Roosevelt (1907)

“Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.”
Commonly attributed to Eleanor Roosevelt

“You read Jane Austen [and] you put it back on the shelf and it makes no further demand of you until you feel like reading it again.  But you read a sacred text and you put it back on the shelf [and] it’s still making a demand of you.  It is saying this is a truth to be lived. . . . That is the difference between religion and culture. . . . Unless you hear a command [or] an obligation that comes from beyond you [or “from above you”] . . . you will not be able to generate sustainable, [actionable faith].”
Lord Jonathan Sacks, Chief Rabbi of Great Britain

The only man who behaved sensibly was my tailor; he took my measurements anew every time he saw me, while all the rest went on with their old measurements and expected them to fit me.”
George Bernard Shaw

Wisdom is the right use of knowledge. To know is not to be wise. Many men know a great deal, and are all the greater fools for it. There is no fool so great a fool as a knowing fool. But to know how to use knowledge is to have wisdom.
Charles H. Spurgeon

“They who know of no purer sources of truth, who have traced up its stream no higher, stand, and wisely stand, by the Bible and the Constitution, and drink at it there with reverence and humanity; but they who behold where it comes trickling into this lake or that pool, gird up their loins once more, and continue their pilgrimage toward its fountainhead.
Henry David Thoreau

The masses of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation. From the desperate city you go into the desperate county, and have to console yourself with the bravery of minks and muskrats. A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind.  There is no play in them, for this comes after work. But it is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things.
Henry David Thoreau

“Our country was founded under George Washington’s leadership, as he led our army to win the War of Independence.  During the War, Thomas Paine said, ‘These are the times that try men’s souls.’  Today we face a similar test (…trying our souls).  And, in this test lies the fate of the world.   The forces of evil want to see us surrender.  The American tradition teaches we meet tyranny with defiance and threats with courage.  It teaches drawing on the resources of faith to counter evil.  At this critical moment, Americans need to come together to take a stand against fraud and in favor of truth: to choose freedom over communism, and good over evil. … This is about whether we can still have a free country.
President Donald J. Trump

“Don’t let schooling interfere with your education.”
Mark Twain

“It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.”
Mark Twain

“It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare.”
Mark Twain

“Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.”
Mark Twain

My ability to remember song lyrics from the 60’s and 70’s far exceeds my ability to remember why I walked into the kitchen.
Unknown Author

“Even though there are days I wish I could change some things that happened in the past, there’s a reason the rearview mirror is so small and the windshield is so big. Where you’re headed is much more important than what you left behind.
Unknown Author

Never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter.  Hush until you heal.”
Unknown Author

If you were a horse and I was your rider, I would want you to know we’re on the same team!
If you strive to listen and see what I see, we will begin to ride in Harmony together.
As you hear what I hear and see what I see, …I will learn to trust you and give you my all!
We become an equine team …together!  We hear and see together.  Thank you for listening.
Anonymous

“Remind students that one of the central missions of the university, which justifies its existence, is to get at the truth. …that requires honest debate, patience, intellectual honesty, investigation, and a lot of hard work. But it also is not for the faint of heart. And that is a lesson that is almost never transmitted today. That offense, bruising thoughts, and unpleasant facts simply go with the territory. They are an intrinsic feature of an open society, and they never can be entirely avoided.  No one can be heard to say, ‘I’m offended.’ They all have permission to be offended. But they just can’t express it.  No one should be allowed to accuse anyone else, in the classroom or out, dead or alive, of being racist, sexist, xenophobic, white supremacist, or any other derisive, identity-based label. No slurs or name-calling. These don’t enlighten, educate, or edify. They add nothing. Give us an argument. Tell us why the other person is wrong.
Professor Amy L. Wax, University of Pennsylvania Law School

“Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting:
The Soul that rises with us, our life’s Star,
Hath had elsewhere its setting,
And cometh from afar:
Not in entire forgetfulness,
And not in utter nakedness,
But trailing clouds of glory do we come
From God, who is our home:
Heaven lies about us in our infancy!”
William Wordsworth

Who would want to go to Mars, set up colonies, and live there?  The theory is: ‘Life on earth becomes unlivable in the future.  So, let’s go to a place where it’s negative 80 degrees on average, the atmosphere is toxic and you can’t breathe it, and once every few years there are massive dust storms that cover the entire planet.’  (Ya, let’s go there instead of living here on Earth! …NOT!)
Matt Walsh (Conservative Commentator and Thinker)

“If you live in America today, Congratulations!  You now live in the most advanced and prosperous civilization in history.  And you get to enjoy a life of luxury and comfort that would have been unthinkable to the vast majority of humans who have ever lived, and even live today.  You are in the one percent (you are probably in the one percent of the one percent)!  And of all people who have ever existed on the planet, you are easily wealthier and more comfortable than 99% of them.  You also have more freedom than 99% of them, more opportunity than 99% of them.  In fact, no matter who you are, you are virtually guaranteed a stable and successful life …if you simply:  1) Graduate High School,  2) Refrain from committing any serious crime,  3) Refrain from using hard drugs,  4) Work moderately hard, and 5) Get married before you have children.  That’s it!  Do all of that.  We’re talking about the bear low effort minimum.  Do all of that and you will certainly not end up homeless, you will certainly not starve in this country, you will certainly not die of exposure or malnutrition, and you will have an extremely high chance of living a well-adjusted, relative happy and comparatively prosperous life.  The world has never given more in exchange for less.  That is a fact!”
Matt Walsh (Conservative Commentator and Thinker)

Lessons from the Navy Seals:

1.  Start the day with a task completed.
2.  Find someone to help you through life.
3.  Respect everyone.
4.  Life is not always fair, move forward.
5.  Don’t be afraid to fail often.
6. Take risks.
7.  Step up when times are toughest.
8..Face down the bullies.
9. Lift up the downtrodden.
10.  Never give up!


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Receiving Answers to our Prayers

Note to the Readers This post is written as a compliment to a previous post I have written: “A Pattern for Praying unto the Father.” In that post, I describe a personal spiritual event around the death of my wife that taught me an important lesson concerning my relationship with God and the importance of prayer. I learned that God knew us (my family and me) and He trusted me, despite my failings. Frankly, I was looking for more, but I learned that He was always there, and I had enough information to move on in Faith. Also, in that previous blog, I provided a bit more details about my actual prayer routines. It contains a simplified explanation (my thoughts, my behavior, “the when, the where, and the how” of my prayer patterns). These are honest insights I have learned regarding sensitive and spiritual matters.  I treasure and hold them very close to my heart.  They are shared here with humility and gratitude.  As you read this post, I hope you will do so with the same spirit it was written and shared.


Our kind and loving Heavenly Father can and does answer our sincere, humble prayers. The Lord told the Prophet Joseph Smith: “Be thou humble; and the Lord thy God shall lead thee by the hand, and give thee answer to thy prayers.” (D&C 112:10)

However, for many of us, we may not readily hear the voice of the Lord, nor recognize the workings of the Holy Spirit in our lives. The process of engaging in personal prayer and communicating with our Eternal Heavenly Father is a natural but learned skill that improves over time. Often, we learn this skill as a child at the knee of our Mother and/or Father. But sometimes this skill is learned later in life. Regardless, it is never too late to begin. Our Heavenly Father has asked that we pray regularly to Him.

The scriptures teach us to “trust in the Lord with all thine heart; …acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.”  (Proverbs 3:5-6)

The Big Picture

God loves us, He knows us, and He desires that we pray often to Him. He hears us, and under the right conditions, He will answer our sincere prayers!  In this post, I would like to explain and share insights about praying and answers to personal prayers.

With a few exceptions, it is almost always best to come prepared for our personal prayers with God.  Rarely should we rush into and/or through our prayers.  If circumstances permit, it is wise to set aside a regular times and a regular place for our daily prayers. Doing so will help us focus.  Before we begin our prayers, we should think seriously about who it is we will be speaking to.  Prepare yourself to speak to God!  Try to visualize Him in your mind.  Think about Him and maybe pause for a bit to contemplate.  When you feel ready, begin your prayer. Speak honestly, openly, and respectfully from your heart to your Heavenly Father.

In our personal prayers to Heavenly Father, we should strive to honestly open our hearts and minds to Him.  And, we should ask and seek for guidance from the Holy Ghost.  Humbly talk to Heavenly Father and express your most urgent and sincere concerns and desires.

Typical Prayer Structure

Usually, we should start our prayers by addressing Heavenly Father by any one of His Holy names (e.g., Dear Heavenly Father).  Be humble and sincere!  He is God, and He loves you!  Then, we may express …for example:

    • Our love for Him,
    • Thank Him for your “blessings” (and for His Love for you),
    • Ask that you may be inspired and guided in your prayer and in your life by the Holy Ghost (the Holy Spirit of Truth),
    • If necessary, ask for forgiveness of personal transgressions…be sincere,
    • Ask that He may bless others in need (perhaps be specific),
    • Ask for things we may need or want help with (difficulties or challenges),
    • Pray for spiritual and temporal guidance, mercy, peace, health, patience, kindness, success, etc..

When you finish, close humbly in the Sacred Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Morning prayers are typically different from evening prayers.  In the mornings, we may want to include something about our plans for the day, and beyond. In the evenings, we may want to report, or give an accounting of our day.  In all our prayers, we should approach the Father with a humble heart.  This is always important, but especially if we are seeking answers to our prayers.

After you conclude your prayers, do not just get up and rush away.  Take some time to think, contemplate, and ponder or meditate upon what you have just done and to whom you have just been speaking to.

The Mission of the Holy Ghost

Before and during all our prayers, we should always seek to receive divine guidance from the Holy Ghost.  He is the third member of the Godhead.  He is a God and we should seek His influence and guidance.  Unlike the Father and the Son, the Holy Ghost is a Spirit being (a Holy Spirit), currently without a physical body.  As a Spirit being, He is able to function and perform His many spiritual duties.  He also has many titles, each of which suggest a divine missions.  The Holy Ghost is called the Comforter, the Revelator, the Testator, the Holy Spirit of Truth, the Sanctifier, and more.  His primary mission is to bear true testimony of God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ.  Pure light and knowledge from the Father and the Son is revealed and confirmed to us by the Holy Ghost.  He inspires, reveals, sanctifies, ratifies, and confirms all light and truth.  He is the messenger of Truth and Testifies of the Father and the Son.  So, it is urgent that we are spiritually in tune with the Holy Ghost.  The Holy Ghost (aka the Holy Spirit) should be one of our best friends.  Is the Holy Ghost a good friend?  Yes, He is a very good Friend, and it would be wise to make Him a Best Friend!

So, why is it Important to seek guidance from the Holy Ghost?

If we desire pure knowledge and enlightenment from our God, we must seek to be worthy of the companionship and influence of the third member of the Godhead: the Holy Ghost (aka the Holy Spirit).  Our Heavenly Father loves us …much more than we truly know.  We are all His children, spiritually begotten of Him in our Pre-existent life.  In the Holy Scriptures, we read that we are His “…work and …glory “ (Moses 1:39).  He knows that in this life, we will have challenges and we will at times make mistakes.  But He expects us to strive to overcome our worldly natures and weaknesses.  He asks that we repent of our transgressions and “Come Unto His Beloved Son, Jesus Christ!”  Yes, we are human, but He desires that we strive to follow the teachings and examples of His Only Begotten Son (in the Flesh), Jesus the Christ.  Our Heavenly Father desires that if, for whatever reason, we are unworthy of the influence of the Holy Spirit in our lives, out of necessity He must withdraw from us.  However, if we are striving to be worthy, and if we turn to our Heavenly Father in humble prayer, the answers we seek will likely come to us …and, probably by way of inspiration (revelation) from the Holy Spirit. And, if we are faithful and in tune with the Holy Spirit, we will more likely recognize ­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­the answers to our prayers when they come. Sadly, if we turn away from God and remain unworthy of the companionship of the Holy Spirit, He must necessarily withdraw, and we will be left on our own without His spiritual influence.

The Holy Ghost is our primary and best source for “light and truth.”  Plus, He has a vast spiritual wireless network that is all around us and has unlimited range and bandwidth.  His network is always UP and has an excellent signal.  However, to access the network, we must have “the right login credentials.”  Those credentials include: worthiness, spiritual preparation, humility, and a desire to know the will of God.  And, of course, our personal receiver must be turned ON!  Also, it would be wise for us to “Friend Him” and always stay in contact.

Can or should we realistically expect to receive influence from the Holy Ghost?  Yes, if we are worthy of his influence, and/or in serious need for his help and guidance.  He may inspire and strengthen us in need, but if we are unworthy, his influence will be limited and will not remain with us.  When we are carnal, devilish, generally unworthy, or just not living in accordance with our personal understanding of God’s will, we restrict or block our connection with the Holy Ghost, and His influence by necessity must withdraw.

Answers to our Humble Prayers

Answers to our sincere prayers may come in various forms. They may come to our minds “as we pray.”  Other times, the answers may come at an appropriate time later, but as a direct response to our prayer. These are not uncommon to the faithful. In addition, they often come as a feeling or confirmation of what is true.  Answer may also come as a simple sense of “all is well,” or, “…all flesh is in mine hands; be still and know that I am God” (D&C 101:16). Often the answers we seek may come gradually over time and by faith.  At times, they may even be unclear to us or hidden because of the distractions and/or the cares of a busy life.  These may go unrecognized or unheard.  Regardless, Heavenly Father knows who we are, and He loves us.  It is so important that we remember to slow down a bit and be still enough to hear Him.

An Important Point

During those times when we receive an answer to our prayers, or felt the influence of the Holy Spirit (when we are in tune with the Holy Spirit and enlightened), how should we react?  In addition to being alert and responding positively to the insight, we would also be wise to record and document each of our experiences for future reference. Treasure these memories and keep your detailed record of the event and circumstances.  When additional spiritual events occur (and hopefully they will), be sure to also record them and the relevant circumstances. Then, frequently compare your notes about the events.  What were you doing? What were the circumstances? Where were you? What were your thoughts? How did you feel? How were the events similar? Do you see a pattern?  Overtime, and with a record of many faithful experiences, we will learn and improve our ability to hear, recognize, and understand the influence of the Holy Spirit in our lives. This is because the promptings or whisperings of the Holy Spirit will be more familiar to us and hence, more recognizable. As we do this, we will develop a greater sense of the workings of the Holy Spirit. And it will help us be more open to revelation and inspiration.

Concerning the importance and role of the Revelator (the Holy Ghost), President Russell M. Nelson has taught: “If you have not yet sought for the ministering of the Holy Ghost to help you hear what the Lord would have you hear, I invite you to do so now.” (Liahona Magazine, November 2021, pg 6)

Important Reminder

In our desire to receive answers to our prayers, we must live a life worthy of the constant companionship and influence of the Holy Spirit (AKA the Revelator, the Comforter, and the Sanctifier). His inspiring influence is a gift, but if our life is not spiritually in order, the Holy Spirit must withdraw.  (Note: Sadly, if our personal behaviors are contrary or offensive to the mind and will of God, out of necessity the Holy Spirit will withdraw from us and we will be left on our own, without His guiding influence. Our spiritual progression will likely cease until we repent and realign ourselves with Him.)

In Summary

We should continue our regular and sincere daily prayers to our loving and kind Heavenly Father. Of course, we should always pray from the heart and voice those things that weigh heavily on our minds. But more than just asking the Father for what we want, let us prepare ourselves spiritually beforehand, and let us always seek to know what He wants us to become, or to be, or to do! Pray that the Holy Spirit will guide us. There is much work and service available that needs to be done. And there is probably much we can do to simply prepare ourselves for what Heavenly Father has in store for us to do.

Heavenly Father has not left us alone in this world.  As He has said, “For behold, this is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.” (Moses 1:39)  He will guide us, and He will answer our humble prayers.  Spiritual guidance is available from our Heavenly Father, and we need it!  He will not abandon us. Never forget: He knows better than we do what we can or should be doing. Trust Him! He loves us and He wants to provide guidance. Have faith that He will guide our thoughts, our footsteps, and our actions. If we follow His guidance, we will become the person He wants us to be!


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Become the person He wants you to be!

We are all children of a loving Heavenly Father. We lived with God our Heaven Father in our pre-mortal existence as His spirit children.  He is literally the Father of our spirits. We are all spiritually begotten of Him.  We are His spirit offspring.  He knows us and loves us (D&C 6:16).  In His wise purposes, we have been placed here on this Earth.  He has an Eternal Plan for us that will prepare us to follow Him and eventually return to Him as resurrected glorified beings.

As part of our Heavenly Father’s “Great and Eternal Plan of Salvation” (for all His Spirit Children), I believe He has something specific in mind for each one of us.  In His Great and Eternal Plan of Salvation, our Heavenly Father wants all His children to become what He wants us to be (something He wants us to do, or something we should do, or be doing). These could be things we need to do for His Kingdom, for ourselves … or, for others. Always remember, we are children of a loving Heavenly Father, and He knows what’s best for us. He knows our potential. We should seek Him out and learn what He sees in us and “who” we should be, and/or who we should become!

Without Heavenly Father in our lives, we will not clearly understand, nor fully know:

1) Who we truly are,
2) What He wants us to do, nor
3) Who He wants us to become.

With the positive and loving influence of Heavenly Father in our lives, we can come to know these things. We will be open to spiritual influences; we will sense the promptings of the Holy Spirit; and, we will heed those promptings.

As we do these, we will find we are on the path (or, a path) He has planned for us. If we are sincere and earnestly seeking, He will guide us in our preparation and help us along the path He wants us to be on. Eventually, if we remain true and faithful to Him, and stay on the path, He will lead us by the influence of the Holy Spirit (the 3rd Member of the Godhead), and we will become the people (the children) He wants us to be. Initially, we may not understand nor be prepared for what God has in store for us, but He does have a plan, and His influence will guide us along the way. “For behold, this is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.” (Moses 1:39)

(Please Note There are three individual and distinct members of the Godhead (the Holy Trinity).  They are:  1) God our Eternal Father in Heaven, 2) His Son Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, and 3) the Revelator (the Holy Spirit of Truth).  They constitute the Holy Trinitythe Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost).  They are the Godhead!  God the Father and His beloved Son Jesus Christ are separate and distinct individuals, but they are one in purpose: “…to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man” (Moses 1:39).  The Holy Ghost is a personage of spirit and possesses all the characteristics of a divine personality.  As the third member of the Godhead, the Holy Ghost acts under the direction of the Father and the Son. He performs many tasks for the benefit of God’s children upon the earth, His chief mission being to testify of the Father and the Son.  .)

The process of becoming what He wants us to be has a simple pattern we can learn, follow, and apply.  Heavenly Father wants us to pray to Him, talk with Him,  “Hear Him,” and become what He wants us to become and be.  The pattern is essentially The Doctrine of Christ as taught by Jesus Christ Himself, the beloved Son of God the Eternal Father. According to the Savior, the Doctrine of Christ “…is the doctrine which the Father hath given unto Me” (3 Nephi 11:32). It looks something like the following:

      • We receive an idea that is true concerning Jesus the Christ. For example: “Jesus Christ is the Son of God and the Savior of the World.”
      • We exercise Faith in this “true idea” about Jesus the Christ.
      • We desire to follow Him and be like Him, so we modify our behavior to be more like His.  That is, we repent of our inappropriate behaviors (personal sins/transgressions) and we seek forgiveness (that we may become like Christ).
      • Soon, we will desire to make a covenant with God the Father, and we are Baptized (by an authorized priesthood holder) to be “Born Again” in Christ.
      • After our baptism, we receive “the Gift of the Holy Ghost(by an authorized Melchizedek Priesthood holder).  The Holy Ghost is the third member of the Godhead.  He is a God, and He is a Spiritual being. He has many spiritual duties.  He testifies of “the Truth of all things.”  He is often referend to as “the Revelator,” “the Holy Spirit of Truth,” “the Sanctifier,” or “the Comforter.”  Most importantly, the Holy Ghost testifies of the true character, perfections, and attributes of Jesus Christ.  As we remain true and faithful, the Holy Ghost will influence, guide and testify to us the truth of Jesus Christ!
      • As we learn more of Jesus Christ, strive to follow Him and modify our behavior to be more like Him, we will continue along “the Covenant Path” that leads to Him.  And, we must continue along the Covenant Path, and … Endure in Righteousness to the End. (Click on this link to learn more about “Enduring in Righteousness.”)

Faithfully following “the Doctrine of Christ” will gradually sanctify and prepare us for what the Father wants us to become.  It will also prepare us for Exaltation and Eternal Life with our Heavenly Father. (See 2 Nephi 31; 3 Nephi 11; 3 Nephi 15:9; D&C 76:50-70; and 2 John 1:9.)

Following this pattern requires that we learn early on how to pray in humility to our Heavenly Father.  Faithfully following the Doctrine of Christ will prepare us to be worthy of the constant companionship and influence of the Holy Spirit in our lives.  (The Holy Spirit is the third member of Godhead.  He is also referred to by other titles: the Holy Ghost, the Comforter, the Revelator, and the Sanctifier.)  He will testify to us of Jesus Christ and enlighten our understanding.  “Humble and sincere prayers to our Heavenly Father” and “receiving the companionship and guiding influence of the Holy Spirit in our lives” are essential to our becoming what Heavenly Father wants us to be.  Positive steps toward that objective may include:

      • Striving to be humble in our behavior. (see Alma 13:13-14, 28-29; Ether 12:27; D&C 104:23, 82; and D&C 112:10)
      • Prayerfully studying, praying, obeying, and learning more about Jesus Christ (His character, perfections, and attributes) and the Holy Spirit. (see D&C 9:8; D&C 88:118)
      • Attempting to pattern our life after the teachings and examples of Jesus the Christ. (see JST Matthew 26:25; 2 Nephi 31:12; 3 Nephi 27:21)
      • Learning to listen for, and recognize more clearly, the promptings of the Holy Spirit. (3 Nephi 28:11; Moroni 10:4-5)
      • Responding positively to any promptings or impressions we may receive from the Holy Spirit.
      • Recording our spiritual experiences and impressions. Comparing similarities between each event.
      • Remembering these experiences and allowing them to strengthen our testimonies.

And, we should add to these steps “three important personal behaviors” that will fuel this process: 1) greater study of the Holy Scriptures and of the truths, 2) more sincere and effective personal prayers, and 3) faithful obedience to the truths we learn along the way.  These final three steps (Study, Pray, and Obey) will provide the spiritual fuel to feed the mind and inspire growth along the Covenant Path.

Note: The more we learn of Jesus Christ (our Savior and Redeemer, the Beloved Son of God), including His true character, perfections, and attributes, the greater our faith in Him can become.  True knowledge of Jesus Christ and Faith in Him are inseparable.  We cannot have true faith in Jesus Christ if what we think we know of Him …is in fact not true!  We can only have faith in Christ if what we know of Him is the Truth.  And, the greater true knowledge we have of Him (that is true), the greater material we will have upon which to exercise our Faith in Him.  Then, as we 1) act upon and faithfully strive to follow our true Savior and His Doctrine, we will 2) enjoy an increased influence of the Holy Spirit (the Revelator) in our lives, and we will 3) more readily receive additional true knowledge and insights of God the Father and His Beloved Son (God the Son, Jesus the Christ, through the increasing influence of the Holy Spirit in our lives. As we follow this pattern, we will increase in our true understanding of who Jesus Christ really is (beyond just “an idea”) and our faith in Him will grow …eventually, unto Eternal Life.

If we follow the pattern and example of Jesus Christ, overtime our sensitivity to the influence of the Holy Spirit will increase.  Frankly, the constant influence of the Holy Ghost in our lives is a critical element in our Heavenly Father’s great Plan of Happiness. As President Russell M. Nelson has recently emphasized , “…in coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost. I urge you to stretch beyond your current spiritual ability to receive personal revelation.”

Important Point: In our desire to improve ourselves and become the person God the Father wants us to be, we must live a life worthy of the constant companionship and influence of the Holy Spirit (AKA the Sanctifier). The Holy Spirit will guide us on the path that leads to what our Heavenly Father wants us to become, or to be the person He wants us to be in this life and in Eternity. We must follow the Savior, seek spiritual guidance, listen for promptings from the Holy Spirit, and then respond positively to His influence.  Sadly, if our personal behaviors are contrary or offensive to the mind and will of God, out of necessity the Holy Spirit will withdraw from us and we will be left on our own, without His guiding influence.  Our spiritual progression will likely cease until we repent and realign ourselves with Him.

In summary, we should continue our regular and sincere daily prayers to our loving and kind Heavenly Father. Of course, we should always pray from the heart and voice those things that weigh on our minds. But more than just asking the Father for what we want, let us prepare ourselves spiritually beforehand, and let us always seek to know what He wants us to become, or to be, or to do! Pray that the Holy Spirit will guide us. Pray to the Father and ask Him specifically, “Heavenly Father, please guide me to be prepared and to be the person thou would have me to be.”

There is much work and service available that needs to be done. And there is probably much we can do to simply prepare ourselves for what Heavenly Father has in store for us to do. Never forget: He knows better than we do what we can or should be doing. Trust Him! He loves us and He wants to provide guidance. Have faith that He will guide our thoughts, our footsteps, and our actions. If we follow His guidance, we will become the person God wants us to be!


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Our Home: “a Holy Place!”

Let not your heart be troubled!  (John 14:1)

In the Holy Scriptures, we are warned concerning perils and tribulations that will occur in “the last days.”  Even the Savior Himself has warned us that in the last days there will be “wars, and rumors of wars.” And, He has added that “peace shall be taken from the earth.” (D&C 1:35) Today, we are approaching and may well be in those very days.

However, despite these warnings, and the declaration that “peace shall be taken from the earth,” the prophets also teach that peace will not be taken away “universally.”  Peace will only be taken away “generally.” The peaceable and faithful followers of Christ may continue to enjoy the love and peace that come through fellowship with the Savior and the Holy Spirit.  (See  “Blessed Are the Peacemakers,” Russell M. Nelson, Ensign Magazine, Nov. 2002, 39–41).

On four additional occasions, the Lord has said with great encouragement:

      • “…let your hearts be comforted concerning Zion; for all flesh is in mine hands; be still and know that I am God.” (D&C 101:16)
      • “Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me.” (John 14:1)
      • “I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.” (John 14:18)  And,
      • “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” (John 14:27)
“Stand in Holy Places!  (D&C 87:8)

Concerning the impact of these “perils and tribulations,” the Lord counsels us to: Stand ye in holy places, and be not moved.” (D&C 87:8)  This past weekend, in a priesthood meeting, we discussed the subject of “Holy Places.”  What are they?  Where are they?  And how do we come to be there …and to “Stand” there?

By definition, “a Holy Place” is a hallowed and sacred place or sanctuary.  Holy places are often consecrated, dedicated, and set apart as sacred places of worship.  We go to these places to separate ourselves from “the World.”  As we discussed this in our priesthood class, group members identified several examples of Holy Places, including: the Lord’s Holy Temples and our Church Meetinghouses.  In addition, some individuals correctly suggested mountain tops and nature in general as Holy Places.  One member of our group (Brother Gray) suggested we as individuals can create a “Holy Place” within ourselves.  Thus, we would be “a Holy Place.”  He said, we can embrace holiness in our personal lives and stand firm (“…be not moved”).  This was an insightful thought.  It suggests we can personally nurture and increase our Christ-Like behaviors and attributes of holiness in ourselves and thus always “stand in a Holy Place” in whatsoever circumstances we may find ourselves.  Essentially, we would align ourselves with the Lord and the Holy Spirit, put on the figurative “armor of God” (protecting ourselves), and enjoy the peace of the Gospel of Jesus Christ wherever we may stand.

As followers of Jesus Christ, we can and should strive to be more like Him, more Christ-Like (more Holy).  Aligning ourselves with Christ (in our behaviors, attitudes, and actions) will invite a greater influence of the Holy Spirit in our personal lives and in our homes.  It will increase our personal levels of holiness and will be visible in our countenance.  This in turn will allow us to reflect and share the Light of Christ with others.

However, and this is important, if for whatever reason there is anything in our behavior (or environment) that offends the Holy Spirit, He will out of necessity withdraw from us, His influence will be gone, and our sense of holiness will vanish.  (D&C 121:36-37)  Thus, if we desire to follow Christ (to be Disciples of Christ) we should always strive to be worthy, and to stand “…in Holy Places, and be not moved.”

During this past year of social distancing and restrictions, I believe we have learned that one of the holiest of places on earth can and should be “Our Homes.”  This is where we raise, teach, nourish, and protect our families from “the World.”  For that reason, we need our homes to be peaceful and secure places of refuge.  And, it would be well to dedicate our homes for that sacred purpose.  We need our homes to be “Holy Places.”

President Russell M. Nelson has emphasized this point.  He said, “There are few pursuits more important than this. Between now and the time the Lord comes again, we all need our homes to be places of serenity and security.  …your commitment to make your home your primary sanctuary of faith should never end.  As faith and holiness decrease in this fallen world, your need for holy places will increase. I urge you to continue to make your home a truly holy place ‘and be not moved’ from that essential goal.”

Making our Home a “Holy Place”

I have often heard it suggested that if we want our homes to be more “Holy,” we should pattern them after the peaceful and holy atmosphere found in the Holy Temples.  While this is not entirely a bad idea, it is not very practical.  After all, we must live, love, laugh, play, sing and grow in our homes.  But, what can we do to pattern our homes after the Lord’s Holy Temples?  Among other things, we can:

    • Work as a family to instill an atmosphere of Christ-Like love, holiness, devolution, and respect for one another.
    • Work together to keep our homes clean, organized, and orderly.
    • Eat family meals together and always share clean-up duties.
    • Participate in uplifting personal and family activities …together.
    • Respect and follow family norms and standards.

Also, I believe we should have a certain amount of reverence in the home, although it should not preclude joy, as well as some fun and laughter.  However, loud boisterous noises in the home are often contrary to the peace and quiet we seek in our homes.  When our children were still at home with us, we had a few very strict rules.  One of them was:  “No yelling in the home …unless there is a fire or some other emergency.”

Please keep in mind, making our homes “Holy Places” is NOT a one-time event.  More likely, it will be a long-term family effort that will continue to improve over time.  Meanwhile, in that noble process, we should remain alert and sensitive to ideas we may have/receive along ways, ideas that may improve the holiness in our homes.  And if possible, we should diligently make those adjustments where necessary.

At times, we may struggle in our homes as we strive to meet expectations.  But, DO NOT give up!  Making our homes “Holy Places” is an enormously important duty, to ourselves, our families, and our God.  But, it is well worth the effort required.  By itself, Home Management is a science (colleges and universities actual offer degrees in Home Management).  But, from an Eternal perspective, parenting and home management is “a Holy Mission” and, “a Sacred Duty.”  It requires vision, diligence, physical strength, love, kindness, and spiritually.  And, it needs to be maintained with faith, love for one another, and divine guidance.  To be sure, building and maintaining homes that are “Holy Places,” come with great blessings and rewards.  So, continue to do what you can and must do.  If you struggle with what needs to be done, and you need help, counsel together as a family, and ask the Lord for guidance.  Parenting is a sacred partnership with God.  If you ask with sincerity, the Lord will answer/inspire you.

Preparation for Success!

Do you remember the wise example of Captain Moroni (the Chief Captain of all the Nephite Armies) when he “…did not stop making preparations …to defend his people”? (See Book of Mormon, Alma 50:1-4) His diligent preparations to ready his people for battle against the Lamanites proved remarkably effective and successful.  On many levels, his example of diligent preparation can serve as a type pointing to the struggles (battles) we are facing today, and will continue to face in the future.  Moroni knew the Lamanite enemies were a threat to the Nephite people, so he diligently prepared defenses to protect them.

Like Captain Moroni, we too have an enemy at our door.  Will preparing our homes to be “Holy Places” help us?  Will preparing ourselves by faithfully keeping the commandments of God and remaining on “the Covenant Path” help us?  Will sacred ordinance work in the Holy Temples help us?  Will attending sacred worship services in our dedicated meetinghouses help us?  And, will making our homes “Holy Places” (where we can stand) protect us from the evil threats and enemies of our day?  Yes, they will!

(NOTE: Have you ever wondered why the Book of Mormon contains so much information concerning wars, rumors of wars, battles, unimaginable death counts, and destruction of whole cities (as recorded in “the so called Wars Chapters”)?  Could it be they are provided to us in these last days as a type pointing to our times and providing examples for us to follow.  Consider Moroni’s faith in God, his love for his people, and his inspired preparations for battle: their fortifications, their armor and weapons, their strength, their bravery, and their banners. Moroni was fighting against genuine evil, and the defeat of the evil enemies. We can learn and gain wisdom by reading about Captain Moroni’s preparations.  As I said, we too have enemies at our door.)


Some Personal Background

My personal home management and parenting experiences are probably quite different than most (six years of hands-on experience at single father parenting of seven children).  Shortly after the birth of our seventh child, my dear wife (Jenny) became seriously ill and passed away suddenly in my arms.  At that moment, parenting and homemaking took on a new dimension for me.  Our children (ages five months through 13 years) became my sole responsibility.  This was for me a near overwhelming responsibility. Regrettably, at the time of Jenny’s death, I was ill-prepared for the sheer volume of responsibilities and duties that came with being a single parent and homemaker (…the list is long!).  I had to somehow get my arms around the enormity of my new responsibilities.  I knew I lacked many of the skills of a homemaker, and I needed to learn those skills quickly.

At the time, I was an active-duty military man (US Air Force, 1968-1994) and for me the initial steps were obvious:  I had to “organize my unit.”  (I am not recommending my actions as the perfect solution, but for me, they worked.  So, we got organized.)  I began by writing Our Family Vision and Mission Statement.  I also established Edgar Family Rules (what to do, what not to do, and in rare cases: consequences for misbehavior)!  And I created “operating procedures, instructions, and checklists” for completing each household task.  I acknowledge “operating procedures, instructions, and checklists” are probably a bit over the top for the genuine homemaker, but I needed to be specific about each household task and what exactly would constitute “task completion.”  I will not include my full instructions here for fear of being ridiculed by “real homemakers,” …and possibly frightening others.  But I will share below some of the practices, policies, philosophies, and simple guidelines I followed.

Basic Housekeeping Practices/Policies:
    • Have a trash can in every room:
      Bedrooms, Bathrooms, Kitchen, Office, and Garage. Put all trash in those cans! Do not fill the cans to overflowing.  Gather the trash before the cans are full: bag and place trash in the dumpster.
    • Have a Personal Bathing schedule (Baths):
      With seven children of various ages, this was complicated.  But I did have a plan.  I won’t try to explain it here, but it included:

1) a schedule (very important);
2) a reasonable amount of time (also very important);
3) a limit to the number of towels allowed for one bath event; and,
4) a requirement to clean up the bathroom after bathing.

    • Have an individual dirty clothes basket in every bedroom:
      Only put “soiled clothing” in the baskets.  (Always return clean clothing to the closet/drawers …neatly.)
    • Have a “dirty clothes” laundry basket in the Laundry Room:
      Never leave clothing lying on the floor (anytime, anywhere)!

Important Point: Clothing items are to be kept in one of three places ONLY:  1) On our bodies; 2) In the laundry basket/laundry room; or 3) Put away neatly in drawers or closets.  Never leave clothing on the floor!

    • Have a spray bottle of Windex or disinfectant spray, and a roll of Paper Towels, under each sink in the house.  Clean surfaces as needed!
    • Kitchen Policy: Clean the kitchen immediately after each meal.  This includes clearing the trash, washing all dishes/utensils/etc., putting them away, and wiping down all surfaces with disinfectants spray.
    • General Policy: When you take something out, return it (or dispose of it if trash) when you are finished!
    • General Policy: Routinely pick up things that are out of place and return them to “their place(s).”
    • General Policy: Remove clutter when you see it!
    • Finally:  Have a Chores Chart!  Yes, we had a well organized chores/assignment chart (very important).  However, I won’t include a copy here.
General Housekeeping Philosophy (and Tools)
    • Learn basic “Housekeeping Skills” and teach them to each child.
    • Think about and try to understand the truth of the old saying: “Cleanliness is next to Godliness.”  What does it mean?  How is it applied?
    • Accept ownership of your life. Be aware of your surroundings and your situation.  Clear and clean deliberately, diligently, and dependably.  Discipline yourself!
    • Include all family members in the housekeeping effort. Be a team.  Work together for the common good.  (Even small children can learn skills.)
    • Plan regular and thorough house cleaning days.
    • Always be alert! Pickup and/or straighten little things as you see them.
    • Understand your tools and equipment: i.e., Washing Machine, Clothes Dryer, Dishwasher, Kitchen Sink, In-sink Garbage Disposal, Vacuum Cleaner, mops, brooms, brushes, toilet/sink plunger, rags, cleaning chemicals, and the lawnmower, etc.

“Behold, mine house is a house of order, saith the Lord God, and not a house of confusion.” (D&C 132:8)

Conclusion:

In this post, I began by considering the counsel of the Lord to “Stand ye in Holy places, and be not moved.” (D&C 87:8) I asked and identified several places that we could consider “Holy Places:” i.e., Sacred Holy Temples, Dedicated Meetinghouses, Mountain Tops, and Nature.  We also considered the value of creating a “Holy Place” in our homes, and within ourselves.  I believe all these “places” can be “holy places” for us.  However, looking back on this post, I see I focused mostly on our home as a “Holy Place.”  I believe it was for a very significant reason.  As President Nelson said: “There are few pursuits more important than this. … we all need our homes to be places of serenity and security.”  And, “I urge you to continue to make your home a truly holy place ‘and be not moved’ from that essential goal.”

Going forward, I feel it would be good to periodically and prayerfully ask ourselves two question: 1) “How am I (and my family) doing in making our home a “Holy Place?”  And then consider this question:  2) “What can I, or should I, be doing to retain that sacred feeling in my home and with my family?”

When you receive answers to those two questions, make a note to yourself to help you remember, and then obey the promptings.


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